Is Seattle safer than Durham?
No. Durham's crime index is 193 versus 252 in Seattle, and its violent crime index is 163 versus 216, using 2024-2025 FBI data.
Durham is cheaper. Median rent is $1,508 a month versus $2,030 in Seattle.
The income gap between Seattle and Durham is significant: $123,860 median household versus $81,619. That spread matters more if you are job hunting locally than if you are remote. Typical rent is $2,030 in Seattle and $1,508 in Durham.
Durham is not a close call here. It leads on cost of living, safety, and weather by margins that add up in daily life. Seattle makes sense if you have a specific reason, a job offer, family, or a neighborhood you already know, but on the numbers alone Durham is the stronger move.
The rent gap is real but neighborhoods matter. Durham at $1,508 average has pockets that run $1,308 and others at $1,908: your actual number depends on which part of the city you land in.