Is Tulsa safer than Gilbert?
No. Gilbert's crime index is 47 versus 236 in Tulsa, and its violent crime index is 37 versus 257, using 2024-2025 FBI data.
Tulsa is cheaper. Median rent is $1,052 a month versus $2,110 in Gilbert.
The income gap between Tulsa and Gilbert is significant: $59,838 median household versus $122,551. That spread matters more if you are job hunting locally than if you are remote. Typical rent is $1,052 in Tulsa and $2,110 in Gilbert.
Gilbert is not a close call here. It leads on the job market, safety, and weather by margins that add up in daily life. Tulsa makes sense if you have a specific reason, a job offer, family, or a neighborhood you already know, but on the numbers alone Gilbert is the stronger move.
The rent gap is real but neighborhoods matter. Tulsa at $1,052 average has pockets that run $852 and others at $1,452: your actual number depends on which part of the city you land in.